Red Flags: how to prevent a bad relationship

(Note – this applies equally to both sexes. Constantly using he/she and him/her is awkward.) You've met The One. If there ever was a time when emotion overrides intelligence and common sense, this is it. You can't stop thinking about him. Music is playing and angels are singing. He's perfect....

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Marriage Rules by God – To the Wives

The last time we talked about marriage, we talked to the men. We unpacked Ephesians 5:25-33 and looked at how that passage plays out in real life. If you missed that post, read God's Rules for Marriage - to the husbands first! Responsibilities are different. If we were to sum...

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The Number One Killer of Relationships

When did you fall in love with your spouse? Some people will say the moment I first saw him/her or the first time we kissed. But for most people, it doesn’t happen that way. For most people, falling in love is something that happens over time. It’s not a one...

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Are you a “good Christian”?

A good Christian relationship isn't always the best. Most of the people who come to me for temperament counseling are professing Christians, good Christians. They go to church regularly, give generously, read their Bibles often and pray a lot. Good thing, really, because a discussion of how we’re wired wouldn’t...

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